Boyfriend
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- For other uses, see Boyfriend (disambiguation).
A boyfriend is a male partner in a non-marital romantic relationship with another person.
The term is more commonly used to describe a boy or a young man than it is used to describe an older person. An older man in a non-marital relationship is sometimes described instead as a significant other or partner, especially if the two partners are living together. Since boyfriend and partner mean different things to different people, the differences between them are subjective, and which term is used in a relationship will ultimately be determined by personal preference.
The term is not used in all of the same contexts as its female equivalent, girlfriend. That is used to describe a male's non marital partner. That term is sometimes used by women to refer to their non-romantic female friends, but boyfriend, by contrast, is almost never used this way by males, possibly due to cultural homophobia.
It is not to be confused with the similar-sounding term guyfriend, which is sometimes used by teenagers (most often by girls) to refer to male friends.
The word itself is relatively new -- its first usage in print known to the Oxford English Dictionary is in George W. E. Russell's Collections and recollections, by one who has kept a diary, in 1909.Template:Ref In the past has had implications of an illicit relationship (as sexual and romantic relationships outside marriage were generally frowned upon). It is now a generally accepted term, however, no longer having negative connotations. An earlier usage in print, dating from July 1889, is discussed in Neil Bartlett, Who Was That Man? A Present for Mr Oscar Wilde. On pages 109-110, Bartlett quotes from an issue of The Artist and Journal of Home Culture, which refers to Alectryon as "a boyfriend of Mars."
Notes
- Template:Note George W. E. Russell. Collections and recollections, by one who has kept a diary p.330 "The young ladies...meet their boy-friends at all hours and places." The OED contradicts itself, saying in another place that the diary was published in 1898.